Beautiful Dancer (Bachelor Party 2011)
- helloitsdmp
- Feb 14
- 1 min read
Updated: Feb 17
“Where are we? What the hell is going on? The dust has only just begun to form crop circles in the carpet” - Imogen Heap
In 2011 someone made the mistake of inviting me to that horrendous ritual of male heteronormative privilege, a bachelor party. Unaware of how repellent I found this, I reacted by creating a banging mix (healthy) and then that night in New Jersey, I binge drank (unhealthy and toxic).
Attendees and their related ancillaries responded positively to this mix though! If I'm being honest this is the mix I've created most likely to go viral. This is fitting in a capitalist patriarchy.
Having said that, I still love the meta intro and it does pivot to a more “sensitive” club vibe after about thirty minutes.
If you were involved in said bachelor party: I am sorry. I've worked through the shame that contributed to my behavior. Hope this mix still slaps.
No shame if you enjoy this, but please take a moment to visit the Zacharias Sexual Abuse Center to learn more and make a donation if you can.
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